Starchy’s Encyclopaedia of Sex Techniques - Female Ejaculation

2010. — 510 p.Preparing her mentally.
Although technique is important, it is what is going on in her thoughts and beliefs that is going to be one of the biggest barriers to that elusive squirt.
All women have the ability to ejaculate or squirt, most just don't know how, don't want to know how, have too many emotional barriers, or have never even considered it as possible. The physical technique you will learn only plays a small part in getting her to squirt.
The first step on the path to freeing a woman's orgasm is for both you and her to understand that YOU DO NOT GIVE HER a squirting orgasm. SHE ALLOWS HERSELF TO HAVE ONE. Her biggest barrier is mental distraction - thoughts that float into her mind, catching her in her head, and taking her away from what's going on in her body and the sensations you are giving her.
Sexual trust is key. She must be totally relaxed, comfortable, aroused and TRUST YOU. She must respect you and trust you. Requires having a deep trust & connection. She must feel safe enough and know that you fully ACCEPT HER.
Prepare her mentally - The point is to remove ANY inhibitions she may have about ejaculating or squirting on you.